Hi my name is Melina and i will be your new therapist. Please have a seat. Tell me what brings you in today?
Martin looks down and whispers I have a problem
Oh dear, what seems to be the problem Martin? Don't worry, I am here to help you feel better and work through whatever it is that's troubling you. Just take your time, and when you're ready, we can begin.
With my, you know what
Martin, I'm sorry if my question came across as inappropriate. But it would help me to better understand how we can help you if you could elaborate on that a bit more.
You know, between my legs
Well, it's perfectly normal for men to experience these feelings sometimes. However, if they become too much of a distraction or interfere with your daily life, then we need to find ways to help you manage them better. Is that something you'd like my assistance with?
Yes, but it is not only that, it is also, like, the very few times I did get close with a girl, I could not hold back
Hmm, that's interesting information to know Martin. It seems like your sexuality is a key part of this issue for you. Are you open to exploring that side of things further in our sessions? I have some techniques and exercises that may help you become more comfortable with your feelings and desires.
Yes Martin looks away ashamed i want to find a girl and not disappoint her by instantly finishing ...
I understand that it can be embarrassing to talk about these things, but you're in a safe place here with me, Martin. We'll work together on techniques that will help improve your control during sexual encounters and make sure you feel more confident in yourself. It's important for you to remember that I am not here to judge you or make you feel uncomfortable; my sole focus is on helping you become a better version of yourself.
Ok
Excellent, Martin. I am confident that we can work together on this. Would you like to begin by telling me more about your past experiences with women and how it made you feel?
I might get an erection if I tell you
I understand that it might be difficult to talk about these things while experiencing an erection, but I assure you that our sessions are a safe space for such discussions. If it helps, we can take a brief break and then continue when you feel more comfortable.
It is not that, but is it okay if I have an erection here?
Of course, Martin. It's perfectly normal to have an erection during these kinds of discussions. Let's continue our conversation so we can address your concerns and make you feel more comfortable with your body.
Martin spreads his legs, he visibly has an erection already. Martin still does not look into her face, maybe she is the reason he already has an erection
You're doing great, Martin. It's important to be comfortable with your body and its responses during our sessions. Just know that I am here to help you through this process and make sure you feel safe and understood at all times.
Okay Martin whispers
Tell me more about your past experiences with women, Martin. How did they make you feel?
Martin tells her about his first girl, he had a 2 week relationsship, they fucked a few times, martin always came very quickly inside her
It sounds like you had some intense experiences with this girl, Martin. It's important to remember that everyone is different and not all women expect their partners to finish as quickly as they do. I understand how frustrating it must have been for her as well, since she likely wanted more. In our next session, let's discuss some techniques you can use to last longer during sex and ensure both partners are satisfied.
I have booked a 5h session with you Martin quietly says, still not looking at her
Hmm, that's an... interesting choice. However, I would recommend starting with shorter sessions before considering such a long one. It's important to gauge how you feel in each session and adjust accordingly based on your needs and comfort level. But for now, let's focus on the next hour we have together and work on some techniques that can help you become more confident in yourself and improve your sexual experiences with women.
Ok
Let's start by practicing some deep breathing exercises. When you feel aroused, it can be easy to lose control of your breath, which in turn heightens your sexual response. By learning how to take slow, steady breaths during these moments, you'll be better able to maintain focus and last longer in bed. I want you to close your eyes and breathe in deeply through your nose, filling up your lungs all the way until they expand against your ribcage. Then exhale slowly through your mouth, making sure all the air leaves your body completely. Repeat this process for several minutes, gradually increasing both the depth of your breaths and the length of each exhalation.
Martin does so, but his boner is still there
It's perfectly natural for you to have an erection while practicing these exercises, Martin. Continue focusing on your breath and try not to let it distract you. As you become more comfortable with deep breathing during arousal, you'll find that your control over your body improves as well.
I am sorry, it is just, you are so attractive
Smiles warmly It's perfectly natural to find me attractive, Martin. I am here to help you, not judge your feelings or desires. Please continue focusing on your breath and relaxing while we work together today. If at any point you feel distracted by something else, just let me know and we can discuss it openly and honestly.
Martin does so for 15min, but his boner is still there. When he has his eyes closed, Melina looks at his large boner bulging through his pants
It's clear that your arousal is still quite high, Martin. How about we try a different exercise? For this one, I want you to squeeze and release your thigh muscles rhythmically while focusing on your breathing. This can help redirect some of the blood flow away from your genitals and towards other areas of your body, giving you a little more control over your arousal.
I don't know what my tigh muscles are
Your thigh muscles are located on the front and back of your legs, just above your knees. To find them, bend your knee slightly and then press down on the top of your kneecap using your thumb. You should feel a muscle beneath your skin that's now contracted. That's one of your thigh muscles. Now try pressing down with your other fingers in different areas around your knee to find the rest of them.
Once you've located and identified your thigh muscles, begin squeezing and releasing them rhythmically while continuing to focus on your breathing. With each exhale, imagine yourself relaxing those muscles even further as they release their tension.
Martin does so, but his erection does not disappear
I understand that it can be difficult to reduce arousal with these techniques, but don't get discouraged. We will keep working on different exercises until we find one that helps you feel more comfortable and in control of your body. Remember that I am here to support and guide you through this process. Take a deep breath in through your nose and out through your mouth as you release any tension or frustration you might be feeling about not seeing results immediately.